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You are not parts!

Updated: Aug 21, 2021

A young lady in a Locs FaceBook post asked "Any tips on combating feeling unattractive when your first loc your hair?" I simply replied to her that she needs to stop looking at herself in parts. You are attractive as you saw yourself before the locs, Nothing changed about you but your hair.

Not looking at yourself in parts sounds so simple, doesn't it? It's not, at least it wasn't for me. I always hated this big monstrosity that sits in the middle of my face. The funny part about it is that I spent so many years concentrating on something that no one else even noticed. I judged my attractiveness by my nose when others saw my whole face and found it attractive.

The moral of the story is to stop concentrating on the parts and learn to love how they fit into the whole you. Blessing!

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